I have some obsessive behaviors and so does my husband. Both my kids have obsessive behaviors as well but I’d say EBE’s obsessions are harder for me to understand. Therefore making it harder for me to help him through it.
He was officially diagnosed with sensory processing disorder at age 3. He was delayed in his fine motor skills, and highly sensitive. He goes mute randomly and can’t speak. I suspect anxiety. He picks at his body obsessively. Causing his lips and toes to bleed.
As he’s grown older he’s grown out of most of his fine motor hiccups, but his obsessive behaviors have become much more noticeable the older he gets.
He has a high level of anxiety always. But it’s made worse by any disruption in his routine. And it can take weeks to get back to normal.
A tantrum will turn meltdown easily somedays for him and there’s no reasoning with a meltdown.
And today is already one of those days. I hate these days because I don’t really know how to help him. I incorporate sensory activities and use our therapy swing. But it’s almost like his mind gets stuck on obsessing over different things. Some days are harder than others.
So I wonder and pose the question to those with sensory processing disorder can you explain maybe a side of the obsessions that I’m missing? Maybe offer advice on strategies you use to work through those challenging times.
I try to read whatever I can on SPD, but it’s still hard for me to grasp how exactly it feels.
If I were to create a questionnaire would you be willing to answer some questions I have about SPD and share your personal experience?
I’m just a mom trying to gain more knowledge. And would appreciate it.