An hour and a half into our lesson I realized I had lost EBE. His attention span was non existent, no matter what idea I tried to teach him he was gone. Unfocused. What we call zoned out in our house. Even after my failed attempt at a bath to increase focus. Pinterest fail one of my biggest pet peeves.
I know it was a lot for him having a new routine this last week, but I wish there was a way I could help him. I’ve tried some calm down sensory strategies, tactile play in the sand table usually seems to do the trick. But he’s emotional too. Simply he’s on sensory overload. He took paper and rubbed it across his lips so hard that he now as a lip full of paper cuts which today are a 10 on a scale of 1 to 10. Anyways. Lately I’ve been thinking wondering would he benefit from a true diagnosis of Autism. His sister has one. His occupational therapist without “officially diagnosing” him saw Autism displayed in both our children.
The thing is I never want to hinder him. Or Miss H.
I’m not afraid of him getting a diagnosis although somehow I always feel like he knows it’s assessment time so he pulls himself together and nails their checklists. Then I just appear insane. Which is totally fine.
I just want him to succeed.
So I pose the question to parents of kids with Autism, or even those with Autism themselves. Are you happier knowing there is a name for how you feel. Or do you wish you hadn’t received the diagnosis?
Evan was diagnosed with sensory processing disorder. Heidi with “Severe Autism Spectrum Disorder, and Globally Developmentally Delayed” an obnoxious mouth full for a little girl who spoke late.
Anyways I’d love if you would ask, or share this post or pose those questions.
I have my own mixed emotions about Miss H’s diagnosis, and some of the poor practices of those in the medical field as well as therapy vendors.
We do practice our own occupational therapy in home each day. Which I feel like has really benefited the kids.
Anyways eventually I’ll come to a decision on having him assessed again. Until then we will push through this phase and I’ll complain to my girlfriends and problem solve ideas on how to help them through this phase.
Thank God for good friends.